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Don’t Commit to Anything
Right after the table has been cleared and dessert is being served the people that had you over to dinner are going to shift gears and start asking you about your plans. Be careful because landmines abound.
Part of having the pastor over is to try and figure him or her out. People want to know what you are “really” all about. More thank likely they have had negative experiences that they don’t want to relive and part of having you over is a defense mechanism.
So you say what you should say about wanting to present the Gospel to people in compelling ways and creating a place of life transformation, and all the other correct but general answers. Then as they start asking your opinions on things in terms of programs, styles, and priorities that of course you have opinions on, stop yourself from sharing them in this environment.